“You’re The Trick” Podcast

“You’re The Trick” is a video podcast focused on understanding the psychology behind paid infidelity behaviors such as Sugar Babies, Seeking Arrangements, prostitution, cam girls, erotic massage, and related choices.

The podcast explores the thinking patterns, rationalizations, and behavioral dynamics that lead otherwise intelligent and successful men into these self-destructive decisions. Each episode provides practical insights and clinical understanding aimed at helping individuals recognize and correct these behaviors.

Hosted by a Licensed Psychotherapist

The podcast is hosted by James Foley, LCSW-R, a licensed psychotherapist practicing in seven states with more than 30 years of clinical experience working with men struggling with sexual misbehavior and related patterns.

Through decades of clinical work with high-achieving men who engaged in behaviors such as sugar baby arrangements, prostitution, cam girls, affairs, and sex tourism, he brings a professional and clinically informed perspective rarely found in discussions of infidelity.

Many discussions of infidelity rely on moral judgment, simplistic explanations, or unqualified commentary. “You’re The Trick” approaches the topic from a professional clinical perspective, focusing on the actual psychological mechanisms and distorted thinking that lead individuals into these behaviors.

The podcast challenges common misconceptions and examines these issues using practical, humanistic, and evidence-based insights rather than moral condemnation.

About James J. Foley

Real Conversations and Call-In Discussions

Episodes of “You’re The Trick” often include call-in discussions, where men share their experiences, behaviors, and thought processes.

These conversations allow listeners to hear real examples of the thinking patterns that contribute to paid infidelity and how those patterns can be corrected through clinical insight and self-awareness.

Each episode of “You’re The Trick” provides a deeper understanding of the psychological dynamics behind paid infidelity and offers valuable insights for those seeking to understand or change these behaviors.

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Our Services

Our specialized therapy addresses a wide range of sexual behaviors and compulsions.

Whether struggling with infidelity, compulsive online activity, or other challenging patterns, we provide expert, confidential care designed to help you regain control, restore healthy relationships, and create lasting change.

Explore the categories below to learn more about the support available for each specific concern.

Counseling

Individual and couples counseling designed to help you understand your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Whether you are dealing with anxiety, relationship challenges, or life transitions, we create a safe space for growth and healing.

Addiction Treatment

Specialized programs for those struggling with sex addiction or other compulsive behaviors. We focus on breaking destructive patterns, restoring healthy intimacy, and rebuilding trust.

Testimonials

Our clients have experienced profound change through our specialized sex addiction treatment.

They share stories of regaining control, rebuilding trust, and creating healthier relationships.

Each review reflects the dedication and expertise that guides men toward lasting recovery and a life free from destructive patterns.

    
 
 
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   Dwayne Croll 
 
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I had an incredible experience receiving their help and care. They really pride themselves on helping their clients to the best of their ability.
  
 
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   Zachary Huffman 
 
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Their counseling services saved me and my marriage. I cannot thank them enough for how professional and understanding all their staff and my therapist was. Truly an amazing service.
  
 
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   Lawrence Amaral 
 
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. They offer a great lifelong plan with tools and strategies that truly work. Everything is extremely confidential and all of their therapists are extremely professional and helpful.
  
 
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   Neil Wickerson 
 
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Therapy was definitely something that I was embarrassed to admit that I needed, but once I actually went and did it I realized that my decision probably saved my life. Mr. Foley got rid of so much of my underlying anxiety I can’t believe I can actually live my life again. I want to let others know that it’s okay to admit you need help. I did, and I never looked back.