Findom – Financial Domination Therapy

Findom is short for financial domination.

It falls within the financial abuse area of BDSM. Usually, FINDOM involves men sending large amounts of money to women in hopes of being financially controlled and humiliated. Most of the time, the two never actually meet, and this exchange does not involve any form of sex. The men are spoken to in a cruel way and enjoy verbal abuse, and at times blackmail.

A financial dominatrix can open an Instagram, YouTube, Twitter , Periscope and other accounts, to attract men with this issue. The key element of FinDom is the exchange of power. The Dom is in charge and the sub must submit.

The Dangers of Financial domination

The dangers and consequences of financial domination are not just financial,

  • Loss of job/ Poverty/ Bankruptcy
  • Divorce/ Loneliness
  • Guilt
  • Decreased school/job performance
  • Low self-esteem, Depression and unhappiness

Types of financial slave

I believe there are 4 types of financial slaves:

1) The “Kicking The tires” slave – This guy browses and fantasizes about being enslaved. He lurks, but doesn’t act.

2) The Electronic Collector – This guy is buying media, such as pictures or videos from the financial domme.

3) The ‘Early’ Slave – This guy He buys gifts, sends cash via app. At first these debits are relatively small, but through progression, he goes farther.

4) The ‘Late Stage Financial Slave – This guy is materially affecting his financial situation. Whatever he can afford to spend, he is spending more than that.

Please call me at 718-208-6135 and we can discuss a treatment plan. I would love to help.

Thanks !

James Foley LCSW-R

My Qualifications

Certified Sex Offender Treatment Specialist Ohio University

Certified Juvenile Sexual Offender Counselor University of Louisville

Full Clinical Member (National) Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers

Full Clinical Member NY Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers

Full Clinical Member NJ Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers

Master’s Degree, Clinical Social Work, Fordham University

Licensed Psychotherapist NY Lic # R059367-1

Licensed Psychotherapist CT Lic # 10800

Licensed Psychotherapist NJ Lic # 44SC05908100

Licensed Psychotherapist CA Lic # 101416


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